Today is one of a kind. There will never be another day quite like today. Much like snowflakes and fingerprints you are unique. Before you get your day started, step back and consider that you are exceptional and that you are about to embark on a moment of time that has never been and will never be repeated.
Looking at life as a one-time uniquely curated opportunity will change your work, your preparation, and your relationships.
Enjoy,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
Many of us have heard someone utter the statement- there is no such thing as a dumb question. We typically hear this right after someone asks a dumb question. Asking why instead of what and most importantly who is the beginning of a good question.
All of us have suffered trauma at the hands of one thing or another in this life. In fact, you haven’t really lived if you have not been unfairly beat up by something or someone. So what now? Asking why the trauma happened often leads to self-pity and a never-ending supply of excuses. Asking yourself, “what will this trauma be used for” suddenly changes the paradigm. All of the sudden this sack of stones that you have been carrying around now becomes building blocks for future steps.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
Let’s take it one step further, ask Who? Who will I be able to encourage, empathize with, and support because we have a shared trauma? When we begin to see negatives as passports to help others, we use what was once intended for damage and make it entirely useful and redemptive.
Flip the Script,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
Blah. That word really is self-descriptive isn’t it. We have all had that blah feeling. Blah defined means boredom, lethargy, or a general lack of satisfaction. I’m guilting of feeling blah and it usually shows up after a day or period of time that involves me giving of myself to others. Why is that?
When we set “me” aside and give of ourselves to others it can deplete our spirits. Think of it this way, you have a gallon of water and when you give your ounces away it leaves room in your jug for filling. If you are in a job that requires consistent outpouring then you run a high risk of dehydration and burnout.
What’s going back in your jug?
It is deeply important to fill yourself with the right stuff so that you have a continued source of freshwater to share. A wise man once said the software controls the hardware. This simple phrase means that the mind controls the body and the emotions that come with it. The mind is a precious instrument that must be carefully looked after to ensure that the body stays on course. Bad software updates can destroy hardware in an instant.
As your Chief Encouragement Officer, I implore you to take inventory of what is replacing what you have given away. For us to move from blah to awe we must continue to pour out and allow ourselves to be filled up with a source that nourishes and sustains.
Move,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
I don’t believe in positive mental attitude. I believe that having a positive attitude is simply about being humble and grateful. Have you ever met someone that was nearly impossible to encourage? These people are professional self-fulfilling prophets who intentionally let anybody who will listen know how unfair life has been for them. They typically end sentences with… whatever. I’m not here to criticize but the quicker we own ALL of our life the sooner we break through.
I do believe that a negative attitude is a key ingredient to low self-esteem and loneliness. People that remain negative protect themselves from risk by settling. Once you settle and others don’t you become envious of the others that jumped while you sat down. Envy leads to anger which culminates in apathy. Apathy if not detected and eliminated early can become viral and destroy a healthy culture overnight.
You can’t fake optimism. To be optimistic one must understand that a perceived failure is simply a building block for future success. Remember rock bottom is one heck of a strong foundation.
Jump,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
Stop and smell the roses. This phrase has been used to explain the importance of slowing down and even stopping to observe the beauty of life. Most often we race from destination to destination. We need to graduate, get a job, get married, buy a house, have kids, build a career, plan retirement, retire and then travel (code for smelling roses).
It’s kind of sad when it’s written out like that. We are goal-driven and seek to accomplish in order to better our station in life. Goals are great and hard work is even better but is it possible that we’re driven to accomplish simply because we can. To my knowledge, we are the only species in the universe that can cogitate, set goals, work hard, fail time after time, work harder and then achieve them. It is also my understanding that we are the only species that is able to make a conscious decision to stop and enjoy life.
Vacationing is not the answer. Stopping and smelling the roses is different from planning, saving, and initiating travel to anywhere but home. Stopping requires you to halt forward motion. To stop our forward motion requires as much discipline as a movement. It seems simple but it’s not. Stopping is frowned on. Stopping will get you honked at and have people questioning your abilities and common sense.
Smelling is one of the five senses and more importantly, the one tied closest to memory. Smelling requires a deep breath and typically ends with a smirk or smile. Today is the day that you have the opportunity to slow your heart rate. Take a walk outside, set the goals aside, come to a complete stop, take a big inhale through your nose and exhale with gratitude for all that you have been given.
Breathe,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
I have been in the landscape industry for 20 years. Like most careers, you have generally good days and some bad days. The majority of bad days consist of the feeling like the world won’t keep spinning unless you send your report out. On top of that, we start feeling underappreciated and deserving of more.
I had one of those days 15 years ago. I remember having a feeling of defeat and despair as I began to realize I had more to get done than was possible. As I walked onto the job site to complete item 1 of 150,000 I was notably stressed out. I began to survey the landscape crew when I noticed the writing on a gentlemen’s hat. The script clearly read, “Too blessed to be stressed”. It hit me, my stress was really based on me trying to manage all the good things that had been given to me.
It’s important we acknowledge that the good things in our life have been given to us and not earned. Sure, we work hard and pay our dues, but we are not now and never have been deserving of the blessings in our life.
As your Chief Encouragement Officer, I want to remind you that you’re incredibly blessed. More than 750 million people alive today cannot read because they were not given the opportunity to learn. You on the other hand can read this on a variety of digital platforms and internet-ready devices. If we start by acknowledging that we deserve nothing we begin to recognize that every day is a gift.
Let it flow,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
Being right and being right as rain are two opposite destinations. The reason we get upset, offended, irritated, dismayed, sullen, and withdrawn is rooted in our desire to be right. The phrase, right as rain speaks of health and being made whole.
Poor health is not always how your body is performing. A person in poor health can also be when an individual allows the dust and quagmire of the day to negatively affect the next.
Life tells us that every living thing has an ending point. A point at which there is no future. A point where what has been done in our time on earth is set in stone. There is no opportunity to correct, laugh or apologize anymore. The knowledge of this fact should be invigorating, encouraging, enlightening, and motivating.
Plato wrote that Courage is knowing what not to fear. Fear divides us. Fear multiplies upon itself and acts as a chain around our hearts and heads. As your Chief Encouragement Officer, I want to invite you to drive out fear and invite hope in. In order to be right as rain, we must take the infirmities that have long plagued us and cut the chain they are tied to. Look up and allow the clouds of humility and reconciliation to open and make us right as rain.
Let it go,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
We have all done it. You park the car and confidently open the oversize doors of your local mall. You pay attention to where you are parked but not as much to which side of the mall you should have parked on. You are focused on finding Wetzel Pretzel or some other thing you don’t really need, and then in a moment, you realize that you are lost.
Suddenly you see that odd structure proudly presenting the map of the mall. As you make your way over to the board you see a few other folks who are just as lost as you are. This informational display has now become a water cooler for people who don’t have all the answers but know where to go if they need them. Behold, there it is, the red dot proclaiming YOU ARE HERE.
That red dot is quite profound. Just when you think you and those around you are lost that little red ray of hope appears. The truth is most of us are lost because we parked ourselves on the wrong side of reality. Being lost assumes that you’re in the wrong place. I disagree, being lost while earnestly seeking being found is a magical place. It’s a place that leads to a deep and triumphant revelation about who you are and where you are supposed to be.
It would be fantastic if these maps were in plain site throughout every stage of our life. The reality is the maps are there they are just not utilized enough. The maps for your life come in the shape of real friends, real community, and real relationships. These real signs tell us the truth when we think we are lost. These living breathing signs affirm that you are here, and you matter.
Make it a great week,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
Did you ever have growing pains as a kid? I did and they were very uncomfortable and painful. The bright side was that I knew that pain had a purpose, and it was a clear sign that I was growing. When purpose is identified in any activity our perspective changes.
Today we honor Martin Luther King Jr. He was not a perfect man by any stretch of the imagination, but he was a man with a purpose. He was quoted saying life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others? His purpose was clear and as result, he bettered our country and inspired growth around the world.
Let’s take your health for example, maintaining your weight requires a balancing act between exercise and discipline. It would be fantastic if you could establish a health standard for yourself and hit a maintenance button that required no work. Unfortunately, there is not an app for that.
Growing with purpose is different than pursuing growth. To acquire new business or new relationships for the sake of growth is shallow and an exercise in futility. Pursuing new business or relationships for the purpose of serving others is deep and long-lasting. As your Chief Encouragement Office, I want us all to grow this year, but I want us to pursue growth that is generational. Growth is good, Growth with purpose changes the world.
Get Growing,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.
Collaboration is a skill that requires maturity, humility, and want to. On paper, it seems obvious that we should all be working together. So why don’t we?
Personally, I think we don’t collaborate because we don’t relate. How can one be asked to set aside differences and co-labor if we don’t know which differences to set aside? In order to build a relationship, one must spend time with the other person. This time doesn’t have to be intense or groundbreaking. When developing any new relationship, the quantity of time seems to be more important than quality. As the relationship matures, that paradigm will shift. We all have friends that we don’t see very often but once we are together it’s like we never left.
When we are in a relationship with others the goals get bigger and broader. The goals set in a collaborative environment can only be accomplished with the others around you. This is where the fun begins. This is also where we need to circle back to the relationships. Many relationships get lost in collaboration. The reason being, some will take advantage of those relationships and become entitled in their approach to collaboration. Nurturing the relationships throughout any collaborative process ensures that future success is ahead. Fail to acknowledge the importance of humility and you will be jettisoned back to selfdom.
What is done by you will be enjoyed by you. What is done with others will be enjoyed with others. This simple sentiment is the key to collaboration. As your Chief Encouragement Officer, I encourage you to Dream Big! Dream so big that you will fall flat on your face without the help of those you share a relationship with.
Happy New Year,
Matt Davenport
C.E.O.